My baby (no. 2) led weaning

It's been a really long blogging hiatus, but I'd like to think I've collected some wisdom during that time!  First I'd like to introduce baby number two, my little lady, Sofia Rose. How delightful a daughter is! She's 13 months old at present, and it seems like she will always be a baby to me!

 

 

But she's an independent little thing, in every way. After being exclusively carried and worn on my chest, and sleeping by my side at night, she asked to be put on the floor the day she turned 5 months old. To the astonishment of all present, she began to commando crawl along the mat. And that was it, she was on the move! She was on all fours a few weeks later, by 6 months she was crossing rooms. At 9 months she took her first step, by 10 months she was walking.

Her food journey has had a similar element of precocious independence. I'd made up my mind to keep her exclusively breast fed through her first year, believing this was the healthiest start to life... But my baby had other ideas! At just barely 4 months she mastered grabbing food from my hand and stuffing her fist into her mouth before I could stop her! Far from 12 months on milk, it was all I could do to make it to 5 months!



Sprung!...Is that a beetroot Sofia? Delicious?

So I abandoned my grand plans of breastfeeding exclusively, and, with the encouragement of a friend and colleague who's opinion I respect, we went ahead with her first foods. As it was very much Sofia's choice to begin to eat solids, she seemed like a perfect candidate for baby led weaning (BLW). We had intended to use this style for Antonio, but wimped out when he gagged on a green bean! I fed him all of the same foods that I offered to Sofia, only as purees. Sofia had a combination of baby led weaning and Weston A Price baby feeding recommendations, which means I gave her certain very important, nutrient dense foods in a cup or spoon, which is not strictly in line with baby led weaning practices.  First I fed her chicken broth from a small cup. Broth is a wonderful first food as its warm, nourishing, and helps to seal the little gut, and promote gut flora balance, which is the most important thing a food can do! She loves her broth still, these days she drinks it through a straw. 

Following the broth was egg yolk. A perfect baby food, yolk is very similar in it's nutritional profile to breast milk, and I always think it's as though it was made for little ones! Both my babies loved it. Yolk provides fats and fat soluble vitamins, needed for immune system function and the rapid brain development of the little ones, plus iron, which can begin to deplete in mothers milk, but it's so much more easily absorbed from an egg yolk than those awful fortified cereals (which just constipate the poor little things anyway). I found the easiest way to give yolks was like the broth, in a small cup. I prepared them in a little pot, first melting about 5g of butter, then adding the yolk, stirring, over a very low heat for just a few seconds, to warm it through. Now she eats whole eggs, scrambled, and has raw yolks in smoothies. I continue to ensure she gets at least two yolks per day for optimal growth and development. 

 

The final food I offer to her on a spoon is butter. My babies both love organic, grass fed butter. It's a great source of fat soluble vitamins and saturated fats, important for gut health, brain and bone development.
 

In addition to these, I offered her vegetables, boiled until soft in salted water, and smothered in butter! She tasted fruit pieces, yoghurt and avocado. Her first meat experiences were with chicken drumsticks, with most of the meat removed. This was always an amusing sight, especially as she was such a little thing. 

 

According to the BLW recommendations, I allow Sofia to govern her food intake, to play with foods and experiment with them, and stop when she feels full. I never made her puréed food unless the family was having dhal or soup. However there are certain foods I've withheld from her. I've limited her intake of grain based food, since babies lack the digestive enzymes necessary to break them down. (This is one of the arguments put forward for breastfeeding exclusively for 12 months.) Giving floury foods like bread and pasta at a young age kills off beneficial bacteria in the gut, creates leaky gut syndrome by degrading gut integrity, and feeds opportunistic flora like candidia albicans. This is a situation worth avoiding, since its much easier to prevent than cure. Needless to say, she has never had refined sugar. When kids do consume these foods early the result is frequent infections like cold and flu, gastro, uti, ear infections and tonsillitis. Sofia certainly isn't deprived though! She enjoys treats like medjool dates, berries, cream and raisins, and her first birthday cake was a variation on a GAPS recipe, based on eggs, nuts and dates. (I'll post about her first birthday cake next week.)

 Our families have been very supportive of BLW. I've heard that sometimes mums have to battle with family members who are pro puréed food til a certain age, which can make it trickier for a new mum to stick to BLW. If you're seeking advice on how to respond to histrionics from family I would suggest you find your own certainty of your conviction. When you are sure, you convey this in your manner and tone of voice, and you'll find the argument simply doesn't come up. Have confidence in your child, and remember you must do what you believe in. If you cave in to others criticism and do it their way you'll feel guilty about it. (That applies to everything!)
 

A question I've often seen asked by mums new to BLW is how to introduce 'meals' to the baby. I have to say I didn't and don't. My focus is to ensure I provide Sofia with enough nutrients, so I mostly offer single foods at a time, except at dinner time, when she has a plate of what the family are eating. I feel it's preferable to give one thing at a time, so the child can really immerse themselves in the sensory experience of the broccoli or the asparagus or the chicken. Each day I work out when Sofia will have her eggs, whether she'll have some meat, which veggies I'll prepare and which snacks to take when we go out. This method is also far easier for me, because lets face it, I have enough to do! But if you want to offer meals to you baby led weaning bub, I'd recommend doing it 'tasting plate' style. For example a little cheese, a few boiled carrot sticks, some avocado, some peas and a lamb chop. I'd also say that soups are the easiest and one of the most nourishing ways to feed baby and yourself alike! 

 

Every household will do it differently, but I hope my story will inspire you in some way. 

Leave a comment if you have a funny BLW story, pic, or any questions etc. 

Recipe post: Sugar free banana cake with chocolate cream cheese frosting

I have another cake recipe to share! I made this for a friend's birthday recently and it was a hit, and really simple to make! If you have a thermomix or similar it's a breeze. It's a matter of throw everything in an blitz, my favourite kind of recipe! You can also vary it in any way you like, by adding different spices, nuts, lemon zest or even chocolate chips.

Cake ingredients

125g butter, at room temperature
1/2 cup honey, rice syrup or maple syrup, or a mixture of any of these
1 1/4 cups mashed overripe banana (about 2 large bananas)
2 eggs
1 tsp vanilla extract
100ml buttermilk (or raw milk mixed with yoghurt)
225g (1 1/2 cups) gluten free or spelt self-raising flour
1/2 tsp bicarbonate of soda
nutmeg, I like a whole tsp but you add to taste!

Whizz all these in the processor or thermomix, then bake in a 20cm sandwich tin for about 40 mins, or til a skewer comes out cleanish. It won't be totally clean, it's a very moist cake.

Cool completely, then refrigerate before serving, preferably overnight. The texture is like a banana mud cake!

Icing ingredients

3 bars well...naturally sugar free chocolate, milk or dark (about 135g)
250g cream cheese, preferably home made (from yoghurt)
1/3 cup maple syrup

Melt chocolate in a double boiler then leave aside to cool.
In a processor blend cream cheese and maple syrup, then add melted chocolate and blend til smooth.
Slather over the cooled cake thickly!

Please leave your comments if you make this cake, and let me know how it went!

Healthy Habits - Shopping

This weeks healthy habit is all about where you choose to do your food shopping.  Your choice of shop can affect your health enormously. Where you shop determines the quality of the food you buy. Supermarkets take about one third of all the money spent on food in this country. They have a huge influence on the market, and their priorities are profits and shareholders, not health or even quality. Therefore the stuff you buy there is the lowest quality available. They exploit our weaknesses and addictions, providing far more processed 'food' than fresh. Yet they survive by selling convenience. They have a version of everything, so it's a no brainer.  For many years now I have been systematically reducing my dependence on them. I find it difficult, sometimes more expensive, but endlessly more rewarding to shop anywhere but at the supermarket. I have not yet broken my reliance completely, but I'm getting closer!

Here are the food products (stuff other than toilet paper and dish washing liquid!) that I still get at the stuipidmarket:

yoghurt
cheese
coconut cream
tinned beans
rice

I'm working towards not going there at all, ever, and in fact even the above list is just laziness. I should not need tinned beans, I must get more organised at meal planning and legume soaking. Coconut cream is a tricky one because I only know of one brand who don't use thickeners and water down, but if I find it elsewhere... The dairy will soon be produced at home by my man, from raw milk. He has been taking cheese-making classes so we can supply ourselves. And the rice is just a lot more expensive from the organic shop. I should probably just cut down my consumption!

Everything else I need I buy either from my local organic shop, my local (truly) independent grocer, (not IGA) and my local farmers market, where we get our biodynamic eggs and organic meat from Robyn at Redtail Ridge. We buy our milk from a raw milk supplier.

So in essence we have to spend a lot more time shopping, because it's not a one stop affair, but so worth the bother! My first stop in the week is always the organic shop. It's a family owned business and they now know me and my boy, so shopping there is a social event! (It's made even more special as the owners' daughter is an ex Masterchef star! Her sugar free cakes and salads are always a treat.) I get as much as I can there, in terms of fruit and veg, then, if need be, I top up at my local independent grocer. But I try not to. If you can't get to your local organic shop because of work, most will deliver a mixed box in various sizes to your door. On Saturdays we go to see Robyn at the Subi Farmers Market. She knows us too, so it's another social occasion, the way shopping was until the evil, impersonal supermarkets took over. Very olde worlde!

Buying most of my food from the organic shop automatically ensures that my food is healthy. I hardly need to think about it. Most food is not even in a packet, and there are few 'ingredients lists' to read or 'nutrient profiles' to interpret, simply because most things there are whole foods, and a whole food doesn't have an ingredients list. At the organic shop I'm also able to buy good quality natural salt, bulk nuts, seeds, oats and legumes, dairy, frozen berries and peas, various types of flour....And best of all, if I'm feeling lazy, I can get a masterchef quality lunch!

Ideally though, in the long run I'd prefer to grow as much of my own fresh food as I can. Currently we aren't set up to do so, but working towards that too. If you do have the space to grow food, I envy you! Get outside and plant some!!

Meat and eggs raised ethically, organically/biodynamically have higher nutrient profiles and don't contain antibiotics or any other nasties. I feel much safer feeding them to my toddler, than their supermarket counterparts, and I know that they are providing him with awesome nutrition. The same is true of raw milk. This is a whole food, while pasteurised milk is a highly processed, very damaged food. Of course, you don't have to drink cows milk at all, but if you like to, raw is the only healthful way to do so.

These habits aren't just healthy, they're ethical too. Supermarket corporations are pretty evil in general, and I feel good when I support the 'little guys'. It's also more ethical to buy organic vegies, because they're farmed using sustainable practices, and as far as animals are concerned, biodynamic eggs and ethical AND organic meat (one does not equal the other, hence I don't buy organic meat from the supermarket) is obviously the best choice for an omnivore.

Finally, I'd like to quote Tom Hodgkinson, from the great work, "How To Be Free", which I highly recommend you read. "The supermarkets have sold us a myth of cheapness, convenience and variety. But the reality is none of those: they are expensive, a hassle and you are forced to buy from someone else's selection...I would like to bomb them, but it's probably more effective to boycott them."

Salty and delicious - healthy salt habits

Salt is a much maligned and very misunderstood nutrient. Most people think, because they have been told by mainstream nutritional advisers, that salt is "the most harmful food additive". The general view is that salt is responsible for the rampant epidemic of cardiovascular disease of our time. It's simply not true. Studies show that blood pressure is negatively impacted by salt intake in some sensitive individuals, however they are in the minority and for most of us, salt should not be restricted.

The reason we are told all this nonsense is unclear, but one fact stands out from all the murky science; salt is essential to human life. On a totally salt free diet, we simply die. Cause of death? Dehydration. But long before that happens, we become foggy of brain, exhibit poor memory, coordination goes wonky, then after about a week we become clinically insulin resistant... What does all that mean?

It means that to maintain good balance, cognition and have normal blood sugar levels and fluid balance, we need some salt with each meal. We also need it to produce stomach acid and absorb our food, maintain the correct ph, and to allow our muscles to contract. Pretty basic stuff. You need all those things just to get out of bed in the morning. No kid can sit in a classroom and learn under these conditions. They must have salt with breakfast.

Salt is also very grounding to our energy or etheric bodies. It keeps them firmly planted in our physical bodies, which makes us feel balanced and calm. If you're every feeling 'up in the air', try taking a bath with a handful of crystal salts. You'll feel yourself coming 'back down to earth'.

In the Ayurvedic and Chinese medicine systems, salt is considered a calming influence.  In ancient times, medicine people of these two disciplines understood the great effect of flavours on our health, and used them to create health changes for people who were suffering. Salt is prescribed for stress and anxiety, constipation and other digestive imbalances, weakness of the muscles and fatigue.

So we have established that we need some salt in our diets. But what kind and how much? This is where the 'good habits' come in.

I'm of the opinion that our taste buds are our best nutritional guide. We simply need to become adept at interpreting our cravings correctly. If you have a craving for maccas (hey, it's ok, it happens to me!) try thinking, 'I must require some salt. I'm obviously deficient.' To remedy this, simply add salt to a healthy meal. To prevent it, add salt to every meal, even for your children when they begin to take solids. Kids' growing brains are particularly susceptible to salt deficiency. When you have had enough of the right kind of salt (see below), your body will tell you to stop. You don't need to restrict your intake. There is a very efficient inbuilt system which will shut off hunger when you have had enough (here is one reason why I don't make my toddler finish his plate of food. I want him to learn to trust his hunger reflex).  If you do overdo it, you'll crave water. Simple.

Now, what kind? This is the big one. That processed, refined salt, easily mistaken for white sugar? The stuff in the uniquely shaped container? Without mentioning brands, you know the one. DON'T EAT IT! If you have some at home, stick it in the laundry cupboard for colour-fixing. The salt you want is at the health food shop, or your local organic shop. Any they stock are fine. They will have sea salt, rock salt, river salt and crystal salt. Take your pick. They're all perfect for our bodies for the simple reason that these are the exact substances that our ancestors have consumed since we became homo sapiens. They are complexes of different minerals, not just pure sodium chloride. They are what our bodies are asking us for when we have a salt craving.

The problem with the salt in processed foods and fast food is that it is highly refined. Food industry knows very well that we crave salt. The more salty flavour they can cram into each mouthful, the more money they will make. To achieve this, they use the most refined form of sodium they can get. This is a major issue. That's the stuff to avoid.

Sometimes our taste buds can lose sensitivity to salt, so that we can't taste it properly. This happens as we age, in times of great stress, and for smokers especially. It can actually indicate deficiencies in other minerals, especially zinc. So if other people are saying your food is over-salted, try increasing the zinc rich foods in your diet.

So the habit to change this week is your salt habit. Make sure you get enough of the good stuff and avoid the bad. If you have been actively trying to reduce your salt intake, switch to natural salt, add it to each of your meals and watch your hunger fall away! You'll be eating far less than before, without any effort, and your body and brain will thank you!

Sugar free ice cream recipes

It's been really hot here in Perth. Like, the kind of hot that makes you want to move down south....did I say that out loud? Ahem...

There's one thing I've been craving in this diabolical weather - Soft Serve. That evil stuff made from superheated vegetable oils, powdered milk, high fructose corn syrup and thickeners made from refined grains. EW

I believe strongly in cravings, however. And I have a theory that they are our best guide to health. I think the problem is that we usually misinterpret our cravings. It's easy to do. If your body says "Hey! Running low on salt here!" its easy to think "chippies....", which wouldn't happen if they didn't exist. So if our ancestors were in the same situation, say they needed a spot of protein, they wouldn't think "KFC..." they'd probably think "I think I'll cook a beef and kidney stew tonight". Get my drift?

So back to the soft serve. I believe that craving ice or ice cream or anything cold on a hot day is a clue that you're dehydrated. I tried this, but I still wanted that rich, sweet, cold, gooey combo of disgusting, salad bar soft serve. So I decided to make some! Before sticking the churned ice cream into the freezer, I had a few mouthfuls of the gooey, creamy mixture, and boy did it kill the cravings dead!

Decidedly more expensive than the cheap non-foods that come out of the machine at maccas, but this recipe will actually nourish you and your family, and it's a great way of eating your essential fats and fat soluble vitamins. I never heat my ice cream ingredients, and this ensures that the vitamins in the cream and yolks stay intact. Therefore these recipes are high in vitamins A, E and D and K, plus loads of other fat based goodies that will keep you well.



Basic vanilla ice cream recipe

2 cups raw cream
1/2 cup organic maple syrup or raw honey
4 biodynamic egg yolks (I buy cackleberries eggs)
1 tsp real gelatine (made from animal ingredients) dissolved in 2 tbsp hot water
vanilla paste to taste (I like a whole tbsp)

Allow the gelatin to cool a bit, then blitz everything in a blender, pour it into an ice cream maker and churn until it almost doubles in volume. Then freeze overnight in an airtight container.

I think an ice cream maker is a great investment if you're interested in keeping processed foods out of your family's bodies. Any equipment that allows you to use real foods to create treats is worthwhile, because there's nothing more detrimental to the cause than feeling deprived.

Another word on ice cream makers, don't buy an industrial sized machine! Get a small one that makes just enough for the family to have a small but satisfying serve each. Our bodies aren't equipped to handle super-size portions. Blame your ancestors.

Rose water and strawberry  ripple ice cream

200g fresh strawberries
1 tsp rose water
2 cups raw cream
1/2 cup maple or raw honey
4 biodynamic egg yolks
1 tsp gelatin dissolved in 2 tbsp hot water

Puree strawberries and set aside. Blend the rest of the ingredients plus half of the strawberry puree, then churn in an ice cream maker. As you pour the churned ice cream into a container to freeze, swirl the remaining puree through to create a ripple.


You can use any fruit you like in these recipes. I've made banana honey and added half a cup of chopped nuts, fresh apricots would work, you could even get really creative and do stewed apples and cinnamon! Totally up to you. So have fun!

Whole Food Parties

As promised, this post is about catering a kids party using health foods and sugar substitutes. It's perfectly possible to do this. I did it recently; everyone asked for my honey ginger cake recipe, there were zero cookies left after 2 hours, and one Mum even discovered her 4 year old was mad for fresh blueberries.

In addition to the routine dips, rice crackers and veggie sticks, there was a zucchini slice made by Mum, cut into finger sized pieces, and little meatballs made by MIL. The sugar free sweets included a chocolate cheesecake slice, a ginger honey cake, chocolate chunk cookies and the birthday cake. There was also some cut up fruit.

The birthday cake was a butter cake recipe from taste.com.au, into which I substituted gluten free flour and rapadura sugar. I could also have used coconut sugar. I experimented with using my thermomix to turn the rapadura into icing sugar, which worked well texturally speaking, but didn't taste awesome! I'll keep experimenting and give a recipe when I'm satisfied.

The ginger honey cake was a variation of a wonderful recipe I found in Clean Eating magazine. Here's my version:

1.5 cups stone ground spelt flour
1 tbsp baking powder
1.5 tbsp ground ginger
2 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp ground cloves
1/2 cup unprocessed honey
1/2 cup egg whites (that was about 4)
1/2 cup milk
1/3 cup organic cold pressed peanut oil

Preheat oven to 180

Sift dry ingredients into a large mixing bowl.

In a medium bowl, whisk wet ingredients until combined. Pour into dry ingredients and combine, then bake in a sandwich tin about 25 minutes or until a skewer comes out clean. You can also use it for cupcakes.

See? Great recipe, nothing to it!! Also great because the cake actually improves with time in an airtight container, so I was able to bake it 2 days in advance. On the day I cut it in half and filled it with whipped cream. Yum. And low GI.

Gluten free honey sweetened cut out cookies: here. You can use some other flour if you like, I used a stone ground spelt and the recipe needed about a cup and a half rather than one cup. If you cut them into cool shapes, like the birthday kids' newly acquired age, as Nigella suggests in 'How to be a Domestic Goddess', they don't need fancy icing. For a christmassy feel, just add ginger, cloves and nutmeg, poke a hole in them before they go into the oven, then hang them from the tree by a ribbon when they cool. Nawww

The cheesecake slice was a matter of googling 'no bake chocolate cheesecake' and following the recipe for the filling, substituting rapadura for the sugar. I had also bought Well...Naturally's sugar free dark chocolate bars from the supermarket. I infused them into some cream by heating it on the stove and melting the chocolate into it. It chilled in the fridge, then I whipped it and used it in the cheesecake.

I have also had success making a honey cheesecake which is gaps friendly using this recipe by Sally Fallon-Morell. I usually halve it though, to fit a 22cm spring form pan. And it's amazing if you add 200g of pureed strawberries to the mixture! I put in some with the honey, some to swirl through the mixture, and the rest I drizzle over the top. Food of the gods.

The cheesecake crust, however, was 130g of pitted medjool dates, 130g of organic almonds, 20g of raw cacao (or more if you're game), 2 tbsp virgin coconut oil and a splash of vanilla extract. You can also throw in a handful of dessicated coconut. I blitzed this in the thermomix til the almonds were broken into small chunks, but not totally homogeneous with the rest of the mix. Then I pressed it into a biscuit tray and stuck it in the fridge.

The chocolate chunk cookies were easy too, just a matter of substituting rapadura and gluten free flour into this recipe from Joy of Baking.

At a recent brunch party, I served piklets made with stone ground spelt flour, eggs and milk. The topping options were lemon, honey, maple syrup, whipped cream and fresh berries.

I also made little yoghurt cups with mango or berries and maple syrup.

There are so many options and with a little imagination, the run-of-the-mill fairy bread starts to look pretty boring!

At the moment I'm experimenting with ice creams and Christmas cakes, all gaps friendly. I'll hopefully post about those delectable morsels before Christmas!

Junk Food Jungle; how do we protect our kids?

Lately I've noticed an issue repeating itself to me; how do we control the quality of the food our little ones eat? Other mothers have asked about it, I've faced it with my son, and it's been in the media (again). It's a real issue. Those of us trying to maintain health are often faced with opposition from other parents. Those other parents themselves suffer from nutritional confusion and lack of reliable information. How do we do the right thing?

My wise old herbal medicine teacher used to say; "if I could wave a magic wand I'd get rid of sugar. Then I'd be out of a job." She meant that most of the unwell people who sought her help probably wouldn't have become unwell if their gut flora had not been damaged by the refined foods in their diet. She was underscoring the point that if whole foods were the only foods available, we would all be well, without having to make the choice to eat well.

The unfortunate reality is that many of the things available to eat in this world are not food. They're  slow acting poisons.  They are often the easiest edible options. They're certainly the most tempting. Some even masquerade as health foods! So keeping them out of our kid's bodies becomes increasingly difficult as their ability to exercise free will increases. The aware parent ends up having to walk a tight-rope between health and sociality, a situation unique in human history.

Until the last century, the only thing available to eat was food. Food that we have eaten since we first became homo sapiens. Food that our bodies are familiar with and able to draw nutrition from. Foods in their whole form. These foods are specifically:

vegetables, meats, fish, eggs, legumes (beans, peas, lentils), fruits, nuts, whole grains, and in some areas, raw milk products like cheese, yoghurt, whole, milk and cream.

These are the ingredients for health, freedom from pain and disease, in both the short and long term. The diet we subsisted on since evolving from apes has been more or less the same for tens of thousands of years. All those years that we lived without chronic lifestyle illness. Without rampant childhood allergies and "intolerance's". Without dentists, podiatrists, nutritionists, psychologists... These foods are still available to us, but we don't choose them often. Instead we feed ourselves and our children:

boxed cereals, processed milk, refined wheat products, processed salts, fizzy drinks, processed meats, sugar, hydrogenated vegetable oils and a cocktail of added chemicals like colourings and shelf-life chemicals, given the friendly sounding name, preservatives.

This list of "food like substances" (to borrow a phrase from Michael Pollan) are the slow acting poisons. They provide no nutrition (fats, vitamins, minerals, antioxidants) whatsoever, but use up our body's stores in being ousted, they destroy our delicate gut flora, which is our defence against acute and chronic illness, and they age (oxidise) our bodies. Very few people really comprehend the extent to which they are damaging to us. Their very availability suggests their relative innocence. It's understandable that most parents, untrained in nutrition, fail to suspect them of systematically destroying their kids health, mentally, emotionally and physically. But we shouldn't require a degree in biochemistry to choose our foods, that's not fair. Food should be food. Unfortunately refined foods make too many people too much money. We can't expect them to vanish any time soon. We'll just have to be brave and make the choice to feed our families the way their bodies expect to be nourished.

Kids are born with an inherent expectation that their diet will consist of the first list of foods. They don't, until they've already experienced them, want, much less need, anything from the second list. Not even on their birthday. The parent usually has a nostalgic attachment to the idea of treat food. But we have a responsibility to inform ourselves in this age of nutritional confusion, for our kid's sakes. Inform ourselves, but also listen to our intuition, because we know this stuff, deep down!

In recent decades it has become socially unacceptable to restrict our kids diets to the former list, the real foods. We who try hear the catch phrases "You can't control them", "You have to let them try it", "They'll be teased at school" and my favourite, "Balance in all things".

Lets talk about balance. Equilibrium. That feeling of centredness, in control of ones emotions, calm, contented. This sounds like a happy way to feel. Does it sound like most kids - people for that matter - that you know? Does it describe you? Studies show the startling difference in before and after MRI shots of subjects' nervous system from sugar alone. A normal, versus an inflamed, agitated nervous system, unable to contain itself. How does a three year old bear this? Hydrogenated fats attack the stuff our brains are made of. Low fibre high refined carb foods like bread stick to the wall of your bowel and become a festering mass of disease, destroying normal flora and leaking toxins into the body, clouding thought processes. There is ample evidence that colourings lead to hyperactivity.  How can a little body facing this barrage of biologically unfamiliar substances feel balanced? It can only feel out of control. And that's a decidedly unpleasant way to feel. There is no balance when it comes to junk food. Nature created balance. She even gave us fruit and honey. Big business created junk foods, for profit. And that's the only reason it's still available.


So what can we do?

There are certain healing foods that we can feed our kids on a daily basis which protect them on that odd occasion when the only food available is refined junk. This happened to us recently at an event, where we thought good food would be available but were 'caught out'. As Antonio gets older he's just going to see it and grab it. Here's what I do.

1) The healing foods I include daily are bone broths, fermented foods (yoghurt), egg yolks and LOTS of fresh plant foods. This will protect little intestines when junk sneaks in. Yoghurt and yolks can be added to a fruity breakfast smoothie. Bone broths can be added to soups, stews, risotto, pilau/biryani...

2) Be a champion of healthy choices by refusing to cave in at social gatherings and parties. Until we actually start catering our gatherings with food we'd happily feed our kids every day, nothing will change! Kids don't go to parties for the food. They go because they're social. They want to play, not eat. Keep your emphasis on their true priorities.

3) When at a junk-foody social occasion, feed your kids loads of high fibre, high fat food first, like a good chicken and veggie stew, cheese and raw veggies, bean casserole, avocado and carrot sticks or some fish poached in coconut milk with steamed veg. These foods satisfy the body with the nutrition it wants, so it stops asking for more.

4) Be the change you want to see. Modeling good food habits to kids makes them believe it's the norm. Parents are always right to a little kid.

In my next post I'll give some ideas I've come up with for healthy party foods for kids. If you have some ideas please let me know and I'll add them to the list.

Healthy times!
XXX