My baby (no. 2) led weaning

It's been a really long blogging hiatus, but I'd like to think I've collected some wisdom during that time!  First I'd like to introduce baby number two, my little lady, Sofia Rose. How delightful a daughter is! She's 13 months old at present, and it seems like she will always be a baby to me!

 

 

But she's an independent little thing, in every way. After being exclusively carried and worn on my chest, and sleeping by my side at night, she asked to be put on the floor the day she turned 5 months old. To the astonishment of all present, she began to commando crawl along the mat. And that was it, she was on the move! She was on all fours a few weeks later, by 6 months she was crossing rooms. At 9 months she took her first step, by 10 months she was walking.

Her food journey has had a similar element of precocious independence. I'd made up my mind to keep her exclusively breast fed through her first year, believing this was the healthiest start to life... But my baby had other ideas! At just barely 4 months she mastered grabbing food from my hand and stuffing her fist into her mouth before I could stop her! Far from 12 months on milk, it was all I could do to make it to 5 months!



Sprung!...Is that a beetroot Sofia? Delicious?

So I abandoned my grand plans of breastfeeding exclusively, and, with the encouragement of a friend and colleague who's opinion I respect, we went ahead with her first foods. As it was very much Sofia's choice to begin to eat solids, she seemed like a perfect candidate for baby led weaning (BLW). We had intended to use this style for Antonio, but wimped out when he gagged on a green bean! I fed him all of the same foods that I offered to Sofia, only as purees. Sofia had a combination of baby led weaning and Weston A Price baby feeding recommendations, which means I gave her certain very important, nutrient dense foods in a cup or spoon, which is not strictly in line with baby led weaning practices.  First I fed her chicken broth from a small cup. Broth is a wonderful first food as its warm, nourishing, and helps to seal the little gut, and promote gut flora balance, which is the most important thing a food can do! She loves her broth still, these days she drinks it through a straw. 

Following the broth was egg yolk. A perfect baby food, yolk is very similar in it's nutritional profile to breast milk, and I always think it's as though it was made for little ones! Both my babies loved it. Yolk provides fats and fat soluble vitamins, needed for immune system function and the rapid brain development of the little ones, plus iron, which can begin to deplete in mothers milk, but it's so much more easily absorbed from an egg yolk than those awful fortified cereals (which just constipate the poor little things anyway). I found the easiest way to give yolks was like the broth, in a small cup. I prepared them in a little pot, first melting about 5g of butter, then adding the yolk, stirring, over a very low heat for just a few seconds, to warm it through. Now she eats whole eggs, scrambled, and has raw yolks in smoothies. I continue to ensure she gets at least two yolks per day for optimal growth and development. 

 

The final food I offer to her on a spoon is butter. My babies both love organic, grass fed butter. It's a great source of fat soluble vitamins and saturated fats, important for gut health, brain and bone development.
 

In addition to these, I offered her vegetables, boiled until soft in salted water, and smothered in butter! She tasted fruit pieces, yoghurt and avocado. Her first meat experiences were with chicken drumsticks, with most of the meat removed. This was always an amusing sight, especially as she was such a little thing. 

 

According to the BLW recommendations, I allow Sofia to govern her food intake, to play with foods and experiment with them, and stop when she feels full. I never made her puréed food unless the family was having dhal or soup. However there are certain foods I've withheld from her. I've limited her intake of grain based food, since babies lack the digestive enzymes necessary to break them down. (This is one of the arguments put forward for breastfeeding exclusively for 12 months.) Giving floury foods like bread and pasta at a young age kills off beneficial bacteria in the gut, creates leaky gut syndrome by degrading gut integrity, and feeds opportunistic flora like candidia albicans. This is a situation worth avoiding, since its much easier to prevent than cure. Needless to say, she has never had refined sugar. When kids do consume these foods early the result is frequent infections like cold and flu, gastro, uti, ear infections and tonsillitis. Sofia certainly isn't deprived though! She enjoys treats like medjool dates, berries, cream and raisins, and her first birthday cake was a variation on a GAPS recipe, based on eggs, nuts and dates. (I'll post about her first birthday cake next week.)

 Our families have been very supportive of BLW. I've heard that sometimes mums have to battle with family members who are pro puréed food til a certain age, which can make it trickier for a new mum to stick to BLW. If you're seeking advice on how to respond to histrionics from family I would suggest you find your own certainty of your conviction. When you are sure, you convey this in your manner and tone of voice, and you'll find the argument simply doesn't come up. Have confidence in your child, and remember you must do what you believe in. If you cave in to others criticism and do it their way you'll feel guilty about it. (That applies to everything!)
 

A question I've often seen asked by mums new to BLW is how to introduce 'meals' to the baby. I have to say I didn't and don't. My focus is to ensure I provide Sofia with enough nutrients, so I mostly offer single foods at a time, except at dinner time, when she has a plate of what the family are eating. I feel it's preferable to give one thing at a time, so the child can really immerse themselves in the sensory experience of the broccoli or the asparagus or the chicken. Each day I work out when Sofia will have her eggs, whether she'll have some meat, which veggies I'll prepare and which snacks to take when we go out. This method is also far easier for me, because lets face it, I have enough to do! But if you want to offer meals to you baby led weaning bub, I'd recommend doing it 'tasting plate' style. For example a little cheese, a few boiled carrot sticks, some avocado, some peas and a lamb chop. I'd also say that soups are the easiest and one of the most nourishing ways to feed baby and yourself alike! 

 

Every household will do it differently, but I hope my story will inspire you in some way. 

Leave a comment if you have a funny BLW story, pic, or any questions etc.